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September 06

收到旧同事从北京发来的电子结婚请柬，替她高兴。她是我毕业后第一份工作的同事，比我晚两年进公司。当时每个新进公司的人都给分派一个god father，她与我god grand daughter非常友好，所以也跟着叫我“爷爷”。刚从大学毕业出来的人仍然有这种闹着玩的幼气。我们公司是会计师事务所，我们就像学徒一样，拿了经验就离开。在那几年进事务所，今天仍然没有离开的，都变成独挡一面的高级合伙人了。有一个成为北京的总负责人，常驻在北京，留在香港的也挂了很多名声很大的职衔，几百人中就只有几个是走这条路的。我和旧同事在事务所做了几年都相继离开了，但一直保持联系，虽然只是我回香港时就约出来吃饭的那种。

那几年认识的有几个女同事到今天都没有结婚，她们都曾经在某些公司做过很高的职位。这位旧同事性格非常开朗，跟她相处很舒服的，我不大明白为什么她迟迟没有结婚。那些没结婚的女同事，到今天指望要结婚是很难的了，所以收到她的请柬非常意外。只可惜婚礼是在国庆黄金周时在香港举行，我已经安排了去北海道旅游。那就错过了可以见到很多旧同事的机会了。两天前与她通电话，她说未来老公工作的地方是常熟和东莞，结婚后她仍然留在北京工作。这种分隔两地的关系我不是很理解，我觉得这个状况不是很理想。大概她仍然不能放弃她的工作。今天职业女性在婚姻与工作间仍然很难作出选择。我遥遥的祝福他们。

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	Manfred Friedmanwrote: Hello, I would add that those who say that they "first build the carreer and then build a family" are just lying, to others and to themselves. They simply could not make themselves loved (or trusted) enough. Sept. 22
	Manfred Friedmanwrote: Hello, I came to your blog, browsing other people's blogs. I found what you said interesting. Societies are changing, I think in a good way. They nowadays allows women who can't find a husband and build a family (either because they are not attractive, or because they are not generous enough), to succeed in another way, that is in their carreer. A good consolation prize for them, as their life is not wasted and they can survive independently, outside the family structure. Good examples of carreer women who can't find a husband are in Sex and the City. Do you know that American program? Self-centered girls, unable to share with the guys they meet...scary girls actually. But at least these ones are attractive. Most carreer women I know aren't good looking, to be honest. Sept. 22
	Arielle wangwrote: 我是说不同的时间决定会大不相同 Sept. 8
	Arielle wangwrote: 选择是跟着际遇变化的,不同的时间选择会大不相同. 工作是比较好掌控的,但是婚姻不是,而且很多时候不是不原意选择婚姻而是根本没得选择. 这和人好不好没有关系. Sept. 8
	苏婷郭wrote: 是去了北海道后再来重庆吗？到时候记得联系，掂记着呢 Sept. 8
	Ka Faiwrote: 是港资的吧。就让它是个谜好了。 Sept. 7
	Jency Yangwrote: 常熟和东莞? 不会和Stephen以前的公司是同一个吧~~?! 港资的吗? 他们公司就是在常熟和东莞都有企业~~ Sept. 6

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